Have you ever felt like nobody gets you? Nobody understands who you really are?
First of all, congratulations, because you are being honest. It’s uncomfortable to be that honest. That kind of honesty is hard to face. Most of us would rather pretend it isn’t so, because facing it is like facing a yawning gulf. But the disconnect is there between what we wish and the way things are. It doesn’t go away… if we are honest.
Do you often feel and know deep down that no one really gets you?. Not even your family or closest friends?
We might sometimes feel as if everyone else “gets it” (this thing we philosophically call life) but us. Perhaps, everyone else is connected in a way that I am not. Nothing feels more isolating or lonely than feeling disconnected and alone.
We are not alone, of course. This is the human condition. If we are being brutally honest about it, this is the reality.
What good does it do us to pretend in the end? But is this the ultimate end to which we are doomed?