Why should any living man complain?[i] You are alive! Therefore, you have hope.
Your life, no doubt, has not gone the way you hoped it would. Looking back, there may be many regrets. You may deeply wish that you had known then what you know now, and if only you had some foresight, some sheer luck perhaps, things would be much different.
But things are what they are, and no amount of wishful thinking will change the course of events that have happened to this point.
Have you made mistakes? Be honest! We all make mistakes, and not just mistakes of choice – we all do things we should not have done. We have all done things that we knew we should not have done because they were not right.
We try to “redeem” those mistakes. Sometimes, we try to redeem them by re-characterizing our actions, thoughts and decisions, owning them as if they were right because they are who we are.
That is the temptation of modern life. “Be who you are” – whatever that may be. “Never apologize for who you are”.
But who are you?
Are you your own person?